Hi to the few that read me. I apologise for my long absence, I have been rather busy.
No that's a lie, the real reason why I haven't written in here in such a long while is because of my lack of inspiration. And I didn't want to post another video.
This isn't YouTube.
I want to talk about Men and Women relationship. The complicated and never ending struggle to find the perfect mate for life or the never ending struggle to escape commitment.
I have always had a very romantic idea of men and women relationship. Guy meets girl, they fall in love, they spend the rest of their lives together and have babies and shit. A Disney movie basically.
Oh how wrong I was.
You see, for the majority of people who grows with that sort of idea you're bound to get hurt at some point, and either you keep on going on that path until you find that right person, which never really happens, or you become a monster.
If you become a monster you end up hurting other people, who then probably will turn into something like you and do it to other people and it's a never ending vicious circle.
A bit like vampires.
We will never find the perfect person. If you're one of those people that believe in that, you're an idiot.
It's no ones fault if you get hurt. It's the way our society has evolved to accept women and men relationship to be the way it is.
It's a never ending war. A back and forth of emotions, and dating and kissing and fornicating until you find that one adequate mate, that will not be perfect, but that will be your companion for the journey that is life until your miserable abrupt death.
But then again why go through that endless emotional struggle if we can just go from one person to another? Do we really need to find that one person? Is mating and making babies necessary for all of us? Surely there's enough people to continue the prosperity of our species.
For those others who have been hurt and don't turn into monsters they never fully trust the other partner. Always moving from one to the other. "I'm afraid of commitment". Is it then right to run from our fear or to battle against it? Because one thing is for sure. Human beings are horrible and they always will. So do we give in and try and maybe get emotionally hurt or you never know we might actually find that adequate mate in our next encounter.
Men and women have there own wars to fight as a gender anyway.
Women always struggling in a society that tells them they will not be accepted unless they look, think, and become a certain way.
Men always struggling to achieve, to become, to behave and to think a certain way.
Because of these expectations how the hell are we supposed to be comfortable with each other?
We never truly find answers to every thing but one thing I know is that I live in a society where women and men fight more than they love.
(And no. Fornicating is not loving, it's a stress reliever, it's a biological imperative, it's fun).
